Love VS Romance = PRAYER

This goes out to my friends who got their heart broken, struggling to get up. I hope this could help you in some way.

What is love?

We all have different answers when we’re asked about love but the most beautiful, heartfelt one I heard is from the Bible.

“Love is patient. Love is kind. It is not jealous. Love is not pompous. It is not inflated. It is not rude. It does not seek its own interests. It is not quick-tempered. It does not brood over injury. It does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails. If there are prophecies, they will be brought to nothing. If tongues, they will cease. If knowledge, it will be brought to nothing. For we know partially and we prophesy partially, but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away.” 1 Cor13:4-10

One of my idol, Bo Sanchez, wrote an article entitled “Are you malnourished for love?” After reading it, I told myself, “Wow I think this article is written intentionally for me!”. It was really a blessing and I want to share it to you slightly differently.

When you hear the word malnourish, what comes into your mind? I’m sure you’re going to say, me! HAHA! Malnourished don’t necessarily mean thin because a fat person could also be referred to as malnourish.

Malnourished means he doesn’t look like one but he’s still malnourished because he’s eating the wrong type of food.

Let’s say I love candies (which I really do) and decided to eat nothing else but candies, breakfast, lunch and dinner. What do think will happen to me?

My hunger will disappear. I’ll probably have lots of energy from the sugar. But over time, I’d be killing myself because I’ll be terribly be malnourished.

Spiritual malnourishment is very similar.

If our bodies hunger for food, our hearts hunger for LOVE. Food is the fuel of the body. And LOVE is the fuel of the soul. Without food, our bodies die. And without LOVE, our hearts die.

Many people today feed candies to their souls: illegal drugs or prescription, wrong love, greed for money, s*x. But that’s not the love that will fill human heart. Your heart won’t get nourished.

Every one of us has a heart wound. We may look strong on the outside but deep inside, we have a heart wound that must be healed. Some people have deeper heart wound than others.

Filling our heart wound is the most basic motivation of all that you do. The only thing that would heal your heart wound is “LOVE”.

A heart wound is a “LOVE TANK”.

If we want to function well in life, our love tank must be filled.

At the end of the day, the love that can heal our heart wound is love that is found in RELATIONSHIPS.

-With GOD

-With YOURSELF

-With OTHERS

Our relationships will determine your happiness and success in every area of our life. (Are you malnourished for love? By Bo Sanchez)

The only problem is that our definition of love gets mixed up with romance. That’s why it causes relationships to fail. We need to break free from this!

1. Romance says, “I want it now” wisdom urges patience.

Proverbs 19:11 “A mans wisdom gives him patience”

2. Romance says, “This is what I want and it’s good for me” wisdom leads us to consider what’s best for the other person.

James 3:17 “The wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit. Impartial and sincere.”

3. Romance says, “Enjoy the fantasy”, wisdom calls us to base our emotions and perceptions in reality.

Proverbs 19:2 “It is not good to have zeal without knowledge, not to be hasty and miss the way” (From Boy meets girl by Joshua Harris)

Love is not just a feeling. Feelings are temporary, it is a product of a hormone called endorphins. Love is more than that! 

God is love itself. Wisdom comes from God. In order for us to have wisdom, we need to seek it wholeheartedly through praying.

Prayer is the most powerful thing in the world!

Our father in heaven will never disappoint or lie to us. He will always be there. He will bring heaven to our hearts through his promises and people. If we know what’s better, God knows best!

Saying “YES, Lord!” even we are faced with difficult circumstances will bring us harmony with God’s purpose and will. It will always put us on the winning side of life. It means we trust him because he will never do anything to harm us.

Prayer is a means of getting things done, God’s way. That’s why we have to be open and honest when we pray. (Touching God)

God will understand, so whatever mood you are in, whether you’re happy, sad, confused or angry, just pray. He can take it!

Since God is an amazing God, just sit back and be prepared to be surprised! :)

“What is bad they throw away” Matthew 13:48

I find it really hard to love the unlovable side of others. It’s a challenge for me! I play as Cinderella in every role in life.

Life as an adopted child will never be easy especially when there are loads of people who are against you. I am not excused for being vulnerable. It hurts so much that I feel so small and worthless. I know we can never please people but all I ever wanted was respect. Some would tell us, “it’s okay don’t mind them”, but they will never understand what it feels unless they were in our shoes.

God’s works mysteriously. He used these people for my eyes, heart and mind to be open.

Yesterday, I was reading a book of Arun Gogna. In chapter 10, Receive the unlimited scoops of love, He was telling a story about his childhood. It touched my heart and I want to share it with you!

When he was 8 years old, his whole family went swimming. While enjoying the water, he heard the bell of an ice cream man that made him get out of the pool and run! Two of his loves in one day – swimming and ice cream! He ran towards the man.

Looking at the delicious ice cream flavors, his mouth started to water. But he realized that he didn’t have enough money to buy even a scoop. He sadly turned back, then he saw his dad coming towards him. He looked at the ice cream man and said, “Give my son a scoop of that.” And then he went back to swim. Holding the ice cream cone, he smiled.

His cousins called their Daddy but no one came. They were so busy swimming. But not his dad; he was there. He bought him a scoop.

Then out of jealousy, without warning, one of his relatives pushed him, making him drop his ice cream cone. In disbelief and anger, he cried silently. He looked down at his spoiled ice cream.

Then he felt a touch on his head. He looked up and saw his dad. He came back! And with a sure voice he told the ice cream vendor, “Give my son THREE scoops!”

That’s his earthly father, loving him in his own way.

Now imagine our heavenly Father whose love is infinitely greater. (Enjoy God’s Best for Your Life by Arun Gogna)

I shed tears after reading this.

My dad died when I was 6 years old. As I look back in my life, I may have lost my earthly father but my heavenly father was always there for me. I just don’t know how to listen.

God has worked through my pain. It is only necessary for my growth. Letting go is a continuous process, it sets us free. What others say doesn’t matter because I have a big Father who knows me very well and would give me unlimited scoops of love!

Today, I thank those people who have had treated me badly. Because of them, I was able to:

Pray more.

Learn to forgive easily.

Be more Patient.

Love more.

Be more humble.

I'm no longer "the maid" but a princess with a diamond shoes! ;)

“If God is for us, then who can be against us?” Romans 8:31

My First Household

You might ask what a household is, I know because I also asked the same question before. A household is a group of 6 people who gathers to praise, worship, share lessons and proclaim God’s love but shuffle members every December.

So, I would like to express my love to my previous household!

I found not only friends but sisters who are always there through ups and downs no matter if they're busy or not. Someone to laugh with until you shed a tear, who would cry with you, who would listen to your unending stories, who would eat with you until you get fat, go to church with you and would still comfort you even your miles apart.

Thank you for being a part of my life.
I'm so happy to have you!

I love you my dearest sisters & I'll always will! :)

I'm an Addict!

Yes, I'm an addict!

And would you like to know what my addiction is? HAHA!

Of course you do, that's why you're reading my post.

I'm addicted to Bro Bo's books!

It taught me so many things about life and how much God loves me.

Book after book, it makes me want to read more!

Try it and you'll see! :p

Inspirational
How to live a life of miracles
40 stories of passion
Don't worry, be happy
How to turn thoughts into things
How to conquer your goliaths
How your words can change your world
5 things you need to do before you die
My conspiracy theory
How to be a blessing magnet
God is bigger than your biggest problems
Take charge, give all

Personal Finance Series
8 secrets of the truly rich
8 sikreto para maging tunay na mayaman
Simplify and live the good life
Simplify and create abundance
8 habits of the happy millionaire
My maid invests in the stock market
The turtle always wins
How to prosper

Kerygma Collection
How to be really really really happy
You can make your life beautiful
You have the power to create love
Fill your life with miracles

Inner Healing Series
Your past does not define your future
Stop hidden addictions

Singles & Relationships
How to find your one true love
How to find your one true love, Book 2
40 stories of finding your one true love
How to build a happy family

My love tank is always full.
Nothing compares to the love that God has for me & with that, I couldn't ask for more! :)

God's Little Princess

I want to tell you a story about a Princess. This is not like any other fairy tale because it doesn't have an ending =)

I was born on the 1st day of January. I have 3 siblings: 2 sisters and a brother. I am the youngest in the family. I grew up well loved and provided. Unfortunately, the other members of our family hated me and treated me badly.

My siblings were the one who took care of me because our mother was too busy with family business. One of my cousins lived with us for a few years and made my life miserable every time we're alone.

Like everyone else, I faced different trials in my life and these circumstances build up my negative personalities.

I am vulnerable. My friends were always there for me but it was not enough. I feel so empty! I wanted to escape.

When I got into college, I met someone. Let's name him Pengu.

Pengu treated me like a princess. He surprises me every day! We were always together plus late night texts, phone calls, yahoo messenger, we were inseperable!

After a few months, everything changed! I thought we were brought together for a reason. That maybe, God wanted me to change him for the better but I was tortured emotionally, physically & I lost myself in the process.

I finally decided to break up with him after two and a half years. He begged me not to. So I tried to save the relationship again for the last time even if it doesn't feel right! The only thing that's holding me back is pity. He finally let me go days later.

I was able to move on easily but a part of me was gone and the pain became the focus of my life.

Summer came. I suddenly thought about joining organizations as a divertion. I discovered that there are many to choose from but "Singles for Christ" came into my mind so I searched for it and texted the contact person, Kuya Nino.

..Another chapter of my life

To become part of the SFC, I attended their CLP (Christian Life Program) which is consists of 12 talks:

Talk 01: God's Love

Talk 02: Who Is Jesus Christ

Talk 03: What It Means To Become A Christian

Talk 04: Repentance And Faith

Talk 05: Loving God

Talk 06: Loving Your Neighbor

Talk 07: The Christian Family

Talk 08 : Life in the Holy Spirit

Talk 09 : Receiving the Power of the Holy Spirit

Talk 10 : Growing in the Spirit

Talk 11 : Life and Mission of SFC

Talk 12: Transformation in Christ

It's not easy to serve. There are still problems and temptations. There's no excuse! The difference is that you will learn to be able to take things lightly and have a huge support system to pray & intercede for you!

I have gone through metanoia, "a change of heart", a working process.

I discovered/learned that:

1. I am a Princess!!

-and-

2. I am totally, completely and perfectly loved by my Father, The King of Kings!

With that, things will never be the same!

I'll end this post with one of the songs that really touched my heart. A song dedicated to my Father!

FOREVER

Here's the link if you want to listen to it, http://youtu.be/XJsB3QqBE3M

I'll Worship at Your Throne
Whisper my own love song
With all my heart I'll sing
For You my Dad and King
I'll live for all my days
To Put a smile on Your face
And when we finally meet
It'll be for eternity

And Oh how wide You open up Your arms
When I need Your love
And how far You would come
If ever I was lost
And You said that all You feel for me
Is undying love
That You showed me through the cross

I'll worship You my God
I'll worship You my God
I love You
I love You
Forever I will sing
Forever I will be with You
Be with You

Thoughts on a New Perspective

Hi Friends!

You might be wondering why I only have one post.
Honestly, I deleted everything that I have posted before.
It's time to write on a new perspective!

I'd like to share my journey and the lessons that comes with it.
You would also be reading about my reflections to some of Bo Sachez blog posts.
I hope you would learn from me and be inspired!

Lovelove :)

I Knew What I Want

Everyone comes to a point where they wonder what their purpose is. I did, for 22 years, I searched for that purpose but no matter what I do everything seems chaotic, I can’t sort it all out.

I’ve always loved reading Bo Sanchez books. I’m not aware that he has a blog until my friend posted one in facebook and ever since I have been reading one to three blogs per day.

My story

Since I’m not yet qualified to take the board exams this December, I decided to apply in Transcom as a human resource assistant. I figured that if I was able to get this job, I would be able to help my family and pay my review classes next year. I even prayed for it.

After 2 weeks, I finally got the job offer. I learned so much during my first week.  I was able to conduct phone interviews, background checks and encode datas. I had so much fun but unfortunately I got sick at the end of the week and was hospitalized.

My family told me to resign because they’re scared that I would be on my death bed soon. (Funny right?) Instead of arguing, I sent a message to my boss. I told her about what my family and I talked about and that I would be resigning on Monday.

Monday

I went to the office with cold feet. My boss and I arrived at the same time. She was in a hurry that I had to run after her. When we reached our department, she told me that she has a 4pm meeting and if I want I could make the resignation letter, leave it at her desk and go home (if ever I’m in a hurry).  So I did what she told me to do except the last two instructions, I waited for her in my cubicle. While waiting, I was able to talk to some of my officemates. I’m not going to mention what we talked about but it made me think about not leaving.

After my boss’ meeting, I approached her and asked if we could talk. So we did. Our conversation was not a boss/employee type but a sister/friend one. I loved that talk! It confused me in a way but it made me realize that I was happy with my job.

We have a CLP that time (to those who doesn’t know what CLP is, it is an abbreviation for Christian Life Program) so after we talked, I left and went straight to Vermont Park chapel. I can’t stop thinking about that “talk” me and my boss had so I prayed, “Lord I’m confused. Please let me know if you want me to keep my job or resign. Let your will be done.”

The next day, I have this confident feeling that I should resign but instead, I texted my boss if I could have another day to think about it and she said no, I had enough time. I replied with my resignation message, closed my eyes and pressed send. She didn’t reply.

God’s Message

A few days after my resignation blues, I asked God about what my purpose is and if I did the right thing. And he answered me.

http://bosanchez.ph/do-you-know-what-you-really-want/

“The easiest way for you to know God’s purpose is to look for the intersection between your passion and your potential.” In other words, find alignment.

Like Bo Sanchez, I failed in pursuing an HRA career because I went out of my two cicles of passion and potential.

“Fulfilling your purpose may or may not to earn you money. And that’s okay. Life is not about earning money.”

On his 5 steps on how to expand your territories blog (http://bosanchez.ph/5-steps-on-how-to-expand-your-territories/), I got myself asking, “What is my core gift?”. He provided two simple questions on how to answer this: 1. What do you enjoy doing 2. What are you good at

I answered those 2 questions unconsciously.

That’s when it hit me!

“Altruistic caring & Service”, that’s what I’m good at! And I don’t just enjoy it, it’s what I love doing!

Before I was blaming my mom for forcing me to take up Nursing (I really want to pursue Psychology) but now I know that God has placed me in my profession, maybe not to become a hospital staff  but it’s an edge. I knew he made me for something bigger!

To be honest with you, ever since I was a kid, it breaks my heart to see poor children (this started my dream to build my own orphanage) and their families on the streets begging for money. I wanted to do something, I wanted to help everyone but I can't. 

Now, I'm a step towards mending the pieces of my heart. I am serving poor children worldwide and waiting to serve cancer patient kids (fingers crossed). If lucky enough, I want to be deployed anywhere in the world!

How about you? Do you know what you really want? :)